the world remembers only the first position. Therefore, one should always adopt a mindset and level of effort that places them at the very front. He further said that the whole world knows Graham Bell, but very few people remember Elisha Gray, even though both were working on the invention of the telephone. The only difference was that Graham Bell registered his invention first, and history preserved his name. Similarly, the Wright brothers are widely known, while Samuel Langley, who worked for years on the same dream, has almost been forgotten. We must come out of the habit of self-pity. Often we stop ourselves by making excuses such as the weather is too hot today, we will start tomorrow, everyone else is sitting idle, why should I be the only one working, or someone got an opportunity through recommendation. These excuses slowly rust human potential. Successful people do not change conditions, they change their decisions. Another important lesson is to stop blaming others. In life, injustices do happen, but the responsibility to solve your problem lies with you. “No matter whose fault it is, if the problem is yours, the solution is also your responsibility.” If someone pushes you into a river, the mistake is theirs, but you are the one who is drowning. Therefore, energy should not be wasted on complaints, but invested in self-improvement and action. This is the mindset that leads a person towards success, dignity, and excellence.